tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2359694459221464605.post7290191442333661557..comments2023-09-06T10:54:03.428+01:00Comments on Hijabi Hippie Hypo: Man, I feel like a woman!hijabi hippie hypohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03980411567308390623noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2359694459221464605.post-52246463388175675752010-12-17T02:47:29.547+00:002010-12-17T02:47:29.547+00:00Salam Alaikum sister,
I can connect to this post ...Salam Alaikum sister,<br /><br />I can connect to this post personally. I'm only 150cm. Very very short for a adult woman.<br />Many of my students are taller than me. Even if I wear highheels, they only torture my feet but never cover my weakness.<br />SO many fashion input, like vertical lining clothes, where yhr pockets should be, no wide printed textile and many more only stressed me up every single day. <br /><br />My skin is too sensitive, i can only use baby products 9even for shampoo, i use baby shampoo!!). My eyesbrows is too little (and i cant use make ups!). <br /><br />If I list everything, i will dislike myself.<br /><br />But a motivator on TV once said (his name is Mario Teguh, may Allah bless him),<br />He said,<br />Allah Loves us not because we are perfect.<br />But because we surrender ourselves along with all our weaknesses,<br />Only ALlah,<br />who has the ability to Love us,<br />with every inches our weaknesses.<br /><br />Narrated by Abu Huraira :<br />"Allah does not look at your appearance or your possessions; but He looks at your heart and your deeds." (Muslim)<br /><br />I now wear anything I want based on sharia standards. No more guidelines on fashion for hobbits *lol*<br /><br />HUGS!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2359694459221464605.post-54801141943180665422010-10-29T04:26:22.483+01:002010-10-29T04:26:22.483+01:00Omg I loved this post too! Couldn't agree more...Omg I loved this post too! Couldn't agree more, our imperfections makes us human and keeps our feet on the ground, so let's just embrace them! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2359694459221464605.post-38566632859655073622010-10-18T09:58:17.993+01:002010-10-18T09:58:17.993+01:00I grew up exactly the same way, feeling manish and...I grew up exactly the same way, feeling manish and wide and unfeminine. Heck, I had 3 younger brothers and no sisters, so that certainly didn't help either. I wore jeans, mens plaid shirts, and work boots until I was 21. Looking at me now, no one would believe we are the same person. But the truth is, all the femininity I feel now came from inside me. The clothes, make-up, accessories, everything physical came after I discovered it in my soul and my spirit. Choosing feminine clothes and having the body language etc all became choices I felt natural making, not something I put on in order to convince myself. <br />You'll get there. Don't give up and don't let other people's perception of you hurt your self-esteem. It takes time and life changes to get to where you are going. It took me almost 10 years. <br />I also think a lot of how we feel about ourselves is cultural. Moving to another country taught me that while the way society views women varies drastically from culture to culture, the insecurities of women is universal. No woman is ever alone in her feelings and it's brave to reach out.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01505989611119558547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2359694459221464605.post-15905651935163334022010-10-18T08:32:32.164+01:002010-10-18T08:32:32.164+01:00I really enjoyed reading this post :)
I agree wit...I really enjoyed reading this post :)<br /><br />I agree with you, people spend far too much time being caught up in their imperfections, when in fact everyone is beautiful in their own way (as cheesy as that sounds) :DFatimahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04114478165656827307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2359694459221464605.post-34335820198307974332010-10-18T01:38:26.003+01:002010-10-18T01:38:26.003+01:00This is such an important subject for women. I thi...This is such an important subject for women. I think everyone has insecurities no matter where they lie on the weighing scale, so no girl should ever feel like she is alone. <br /><br />The strength it takes to accept your beauty <i>and</i> flaws as a part of you only makes you more beautiful!Muslim Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08186097747928125335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2359694459221464605.post-70620089756044283462010-10-17T20:56:20.069+01:002010-10-17T20:56:20.069+01:00I completely agree with you!
This post was incredi...I completely agree with you!<br />This post was incredible and wonderfully thought-provoking!<br />Yeah, the media sucks sometimes lol, it can be sooo manipulative.<br />But YOU are beautiful and may you always stay happy insha'allah! :DUnder Urooba's Umbrella!https://www.blogger.com/profile/11905237228320579309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2359694459221464605.post-5676211649243665952010-10-17T18:57:08.911+01:002010-10-17T18:57:08.911+01:00I loved this post, your honesty is so refreshing :...I loved this post, your honesty is so refreshing :)<br />I totally agree with you on the last paragraph, the thing is our image of perfect and beautiful, [thanks to the media] is messed. <br />We just need to learn to accept ourselves and be happy!<br />Stay smiling! :)[[[ x Smiley x ]]]https://www.blogger.com/profile/11300716790994859804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2359694459221464605.post-17215888720624577152010-10-17T18:42:58.844+01:002010-10-17T18:42:58.844+01:00this is such an honest and thought provoking post ...this is such an honest and thought provoking post <3<br /><br />you're right, we should just accept who we are. only then can we eradicate the flaws. be happy who you are. i think i need to do abit more of that too =)Aisha https://www.blogger.com/profile/09806080618991509114noreply@blogger.com